We met Sharon Mahoney, a performer who has entertained audiences world wide, in a little restaurant in Winnipeg, Canada.
She (like us) was in town for the Winnipeg Fringe Festival.
Sharon performing |
We were talking with her and eating when a
woman walked in and asked the restaurant staff for a key to the washroom. They told her that the bathrooms were for customers
only.
It was an awkward
moment… I think we were the only CUSTOMERS
in the place, and we had heard the refusal.
The woman didn’t look like she had enough money to BE a customer, so
plopping down money just to pee wasn’t going to happen.
She approached us and
said, “He won’t let me use the washroom.
I really need to go to the bathroom.
And I am hungry…”. She was not BEGGING, she was not really even ASKING for money. But she was sad, and she was hungry, and she
needed to use the bathroom.
So Sharon did
something about it. She said, “If you
are hungry, I will buy you something to eat!”.
And up the 2 of them went to the counter. She let the woman pick out whatever she
wanted and Sharon paid. And now the woman
was a CUSTOMER, she also got restroom rights.
Sharon stepping up and being KIND - buying a stranger's meal |
So after the woman
used the washroom, got her food, and left, I asked Sharon about it. She explained that she can’t bear to see
people hungry. That is a philosophy I can
so get behind – FOOD should be a human right.
It is a NEED – clean water and food should be available for
everyone. She told me that she would
much rather buy someone food than hand them money, and that it is not the first
time she had done that (which was obvious to me by the graceful way she did it,
allowing the woman to totally keep her dignity).
Actual sign at the restaurant - perfect for this situation, eh?? |
Sharon also told me
that she can relate to having to go to the bathroom! And seriously, who can’t??? Seeing that woman not be able to get into a
public bathroom made me stop and examine my privilege – I mean, I am a clean,
white woman, I can pretty much just pop into any Starbucks or McDonald’s and
use a bathroom without being questioned.
And if it is locked and for customers only, I have some money in my
pocket to buy a soda and get the bathroom key.
But many people are not as fortunate as me.
LOVE this shot of Sharon performing! (photo credit Cameron Knowlton Photography) |
I also want to point
out here – it is not like Sharon is a multi-millionaire. She is a performer for heaven’s sake J . She
gave of herself, her hard earned money, to buy that woman dinner.
Sharon – thanks for reminding
me to keep my eyes open to others in need and showing me a classy, graceful way
to help out. You made a big difference
in that woman’s day, and I hope your kindness inspires others to help, too!
GO SEE HER SHOW!!!!!! |
If you are in
Winnipeg, please be sure to check out Sharon’s solo show, “The Lion, the Bitch,
and the Wardrobe”. She has been working
super hard to promote it and get people to come, and I know she would love to see you in the audience! Only
two more chances to catch her amazing show – July 22 at 9:00 pm and July 24 at
1:45 pm. Link to tickets here: The Lion, the Bitch, and the Wardrobe tickets
And check out her
website at sharonmahoney.com
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Way to go Sharon! Kind people (you) make life amazing!!!
ReplyDeleteTotally agreed!!
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