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Showing posts with label Kiva. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kiva. Show all posts

Saturday, November 16, 2019

Donuts (and a toilet and more...) Of Kindness!

It’s time for another accounting report of how the money raised at the Kindness Yard Sale was spent!

Let’s start this one in CHICAGO.  My sweetheart and I were eating breakfast at an amazing donut shop called Do-Rite Donuts.  We sat at the counter facing the window and watched the world go by as we sipped coffee and ate our treats - fried chicken sandwiches with DONUTS for "buns".  Yum! I noticed that a lot of people in scrubs were coming in, then realized the hospital was right across the street.  So, I went up to a man in scrubs near the register and said that I would like to buy his lunch with proceeds from a Kindness Yard Sale.  Boy was he surprised!!  He had ordered just a coffee, but I said, “Don’t you need a SANDWICH or anything?”.  He smiled a bit, hemmed and hawed with feeling awkward about taking a free lunch from a stranger, then accepted the offer of a sandwich.  I learned his name was Ryan and he was a tech at the hospital.  He thanked us 2 or 3 times before leaving. 
Total cost:  $7.23

Donuuuuuts at Do-Rite
And since we are on the HEALTH CARE and DONUTS theme, how about this one??  My sister brought me a Krispy Kreme donut recently.  I hadn’t had one in a long time and had forgotten how delicious they are!  So, I decided to buy a few dozen and hand them out to nurses, because nurses are the hardest working people in health care!  Lucky for me the woman working at the Krispy Kreme on 72nd St in Omaha, Nebraska was super cool.  I explained what I was doing and asked what the best deal was she could give me.  She sold me 5 boxes of donuts (some glazed, some fancy) for $29.95!   She also loaned me a Sharpie so I could write messages like “Nurses Rock!” and “We Heart Nurses” on the boxes.  Then I took them to Methodist Hospital and delivered them to nurses.  It was a bit of a hard delivery – that is the hospital where my dad and sister were both treated one year ago so it brought back some sad and scary memories.  But it also felt GOOD to surprise the ER nurses, cardiac nurses, and rehab nurses with sugary treats.  They were happy to get them and surprised they were “from a stranger”, not a family member of a patient. 
Total cost:  $29.95

Donut delivery - coming up!

Get ready nurses, here they come
Sticking with the health care and treats theme…  My neighbor Stacia gave me a great idea on how to use some of the money.  She told me, “Special needs parents are some of the most tired and stressed out people I know.  May I suggest finding a speech therapist office or an OT or a child therapy office and bringing some coffees for the parents in the waiting room?  It would mean the world to them.”  She then recommended a medical office in Falls Church, Virginia called “Great Beginnings”, which fit the bill and also had a Starbucks very nearby!  I stopped at New Beginnings and before I even got off the elevator I could hear a child having a meltdown.  In the hallway I was greeted by an exhausted woman sitting on the floor talking on her cell phone and other parents and kids standing around.  I went into the office.  There were 3 families in the waiting room.  It felt a little strange going up to people I had never met and offering them coffee, but I went for it!  The first woman was very surprised at the offer and teared up a bit to think that she was going to be treated.  She ordered an Earl Grey tea.  She and her daughter were not regulars to Starbucks, so the girl didn’t know what to order.  😊  The other people in the waiting room said thanks, but no thanks.  On my way out I paused to talk with the woman who was sitting on the floor and offered her a coffee, too.  “Oh, yes!!!” she replied.  When I asked what her order was, she said, “Oh, umm, my usual drink is too expensive, so just get me a regular coffee please”.   No, no, no, I insisted.  She deserved a treat!  So, she ordered a Misto with cream.  When I got to Starbucks I ordered the tea and coffee (venti of course!) plus a Strawberry Cream Frappuccino for the little girl and 5 cake pops.  It was so fun handing the treats out!  The hallway woman was very appreciative.  The little girl was delighted with her pink drink and cake pop.  And the families who had said “no thank you” the first time were happy to get a cake pop.
Total cost:  $23.32

Starbucks run!!
From Virginia to VIETNAM.  Some of the money was used to give a Kiva loan a woman named Mrs. Luyento.  She was trying to get a loan to buy materials to build a new toilet.  Here is the piece on her from Kiva: “Mrs. Luyến is 53 years old and married. Her husband is a fisherman. She sells seafood in the local market and also dries fish to sell. Her family's income from these businesses is unstable.  She dreams of having a hygienic toilet, but her income is not enough to get one. She is asking for a loan to buy sand, cement, bricks, and pipes to build a new toilet. They would like to improve their living conditions.  This is her fifth loan cycle with Thanh Hoa MFI.  In the future, she hopes for her business to do well.”
I love giving Kiva loans (I have loaned to 14 different countries!), and this one touched my heart.  Everyone deserves a hygienic toilet!  It makes me happy to know that some of the funds from the Kindness Yard Sale are helping her to improve her life.  Our money was pooled with loans from 47 other donors and she met her goal of $1300.  She has already repaid $1.67 of what we loaned her.  When she repays it all, I will choose another recipient on Kiva to keep the loans going.  If you have never considered loaning through Kiva, please check it out.  You will be inspired and grateful for all that you have.  Link to Kiva here
Total cost:  loan of $25, and $2.50 donation to Kiva itself

Mrs. Luyento - I hope she is happy with her new toilet!
And finally, back to Chicago.   My sisters and I had a long lay-over recently in Midway Airport and we noticed a lot of people in military uniforms.  I went to the register at Einstein Brothers Bagels and greeted a woman in an Air Force uniform.  I thanked her for her service and said I would like to buy her lunch with money raised at a Kindness Yard Sale.  She was very, very happy to have lunch “on us”.  And it turns out, she was deploying and was on the way to the United Arab Emirates.  Thanks for your service, ma’am!  Wishing you a safe deployment. 
Total cost:  $7.92

There is $168.08 of the “Kindness Money” left to spend (plus a few more investments that have been made that I have not written about yet).  I know that I am going to miss this project when it is over.  It has given me joy to spread this kindness!  Thanks again for donating and shopping at the Kindness Yard Sale!  

Until the next update… 




Monday, May 30, 2016

Kiva Kindness - a REQUEST to YOU


While on vacation in India, we met women who make coir.  Coir is rope made from the “hairy” bits of coconuts.  These women MAKE COIR, with their bare hands.  All day.  Every day.  In the heat.  For VERY little money.  They MAKE ROPE.

Making coir (rope) out of coconut

The finished product
We were amazed and fascinated by our glimpse into their world.  We were so fortunate to be able to meet them and watch them work.  They are not a “tourist stop” in some Indian factory, there are real local women doing difficult work that were willing to let us peek in.  One woman even let me walk alongside her during one run of her rope making so that I could understand how the magic happens!!  (They wear big pieces of cloth that are stuffed full of the coconut fiber.  They hook a bit of fiber to a metal ring, pull a string that turns on electricity to start the ring spinning, then walk backwards (barefoot on a dirt floor) while easing bits of the fibers onto the spinning end.  Slowly, slowly the rope grows!!  The women’s faces lit up when they saw my expression of “OH!!!  NOW I understand how this is happening!!!” as I walked alongside my new friend.  They even handmade 2 small rope bits for David and I and tied them onto our wrists as gifts.


Busy making coir
Look what they made us!  We will always keep these pieces of coir

She let me "help"!!  Such an honor.  






















We also met a man who runs one of many small BANANA stalls.  India has many different types of bananas!  In fact, one day we bought 9 different varieties and sat down with a local who we consider a banana expert, Prabeesh, and tasted each and every one of those 9 types and were thrilled!  Can you believe that in India they have an “after dinner banana”???  A RED banana?  They were delicious!  After our tasting, we blindfolded Prabeesh and had him taste each and try and identify them without looking – he got 7 out of 9 correct!


Banana shop man cutting
fresh bananas for us to buy



Prabeesh showing us his banana skills!




We met people who run tiny shops.  We met fishermen who own handmade boats and go out fishing, bringing back what they catch and selling it.  We met people who sit on the side of the road and sell vegetables, fruits, or fish.  We saw people using heavy irons filled with COAL to heat them, standing on the side of the road ironing clothes for others in 115 degree heat.  We saw people selling coconuts.  We met a man who is a “toddy topper” – he gets liquid out of coconut trees and it is drunk as a local liquor.  We watched people wash clothing by flogging it on rocks in streams and drying it in the sunshine.  We were driven in little auto-rickshaws (tuk tuks) by pleasant men.  We met men who roast spices then sit on the floor and use very loud machinery to mash the spices into powder form.  We rode in a bicycle rickshaw through the very bumpy streets of Old Delhi.  



Fishing with nets from a handmade canoe.  Many of the canoes are SEWN together - fascinating

See the hot coals inside this HEAVY iron?  It weighs around 20 lbs.
Spice grinding
Selling jackfruit

Working hard to iron clothes at the dhobi khana in Kochi

Fishermen bring in their nets in Varkala and sell the freshest fish ever
Friends fishing
Selling tapioca
Tuk tuk!

Clothes drying at the dhobi khana
Family fishing in a handmade ROUND boat
Toddy Topper!  He puts the "toddy" in the jug he is carrying.  The knives he uses for his work are strapped behind him
And all of this was very eye opening. 

We have been loaners on the micro-loan site KIVA since 2008.  Our first loan of $25 was to Emilio, a man in Bolivia who needed $400 to buy more supplies to make leather belts to sell.  Emilio paid his loan back in full, so we then re-lent our $25 to Ni Puto Arniati in Indonesia, who used the money (along with $475 in other donations) to buy piglets and pig food for her business.  She also repaid her loan in full, and we again re-lent our $25…  We have repeated that over and over for a total of 17 loans so far, and each and every borrower repaid us in full, slowly but surely, as they were able.  And each time our $25 re-appeared in our account, it was loaned with an open heart to the next person.

I always loved loaning money via Kiva, but our trip to India was the first time I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD the seriousness and the value of the loans.  The people we met in India NEEDED the funding.  The average annual income of Indians is around $1,500.  Compare that to the median income of Americans – around $50,000. 

The Indian people we met were very hard workers.  They farm, they fish, they drive, they wash, they sell.  They are humble, happy people.  And meeting them in person has made me all the more driven to give what I can to them and others around the world via Kiva.  Kiva loans can change lives.  The borrowers never ask for much (by American standards) – we helped Waris in Pakistan to purchase a buffalo to get more milk ($1025 loan total), we helped Christopher in Kenya get $600 to buy more nails and wood to make chairs and beds, we helped Elya in Jordan in his quest to get $1475 to continue his study in Dental Science…  We did all of that $25 at a time.

So today I ask YOU to donate.  $25 is very doable to many of us. $25 is the equivalent of a few cups of Starbucks coffee or glasses of wine...  We are so fortunate in all that we have:  clean, drinkable running water, sturdy roofs over our heads, air conditioning, cars that run…  Sure, there are times when we wish we had MORE, but I think it would be safe to say that every person reading this entry has so much more than those asking for loans on Kiva.

Please take time to log onto www.Kiva.org.  Set up a profile if you don’t already have one.  Look through the requests – trust me there will be some that you can relate to.  Choose a country.  Choose an occupation.  Find someone who you want to help.  AND DONATE.  Please.  Heck, it is not even really a DONATION, it is a LOAN.  Your money will most likely get repaid – one of our loans was in Sierra Leone, a country hit hard by the Ebola crisis, and the borrowers STILL managed to repay their $950 loan ($25 of which was from us) which they used to buy sticks to resell. 

To encourage you to participate, I am going to send KINDNESS ACTIVIST buttons to the first 5 people who make a NEW KIVA LOAN.  Just comment here and tell me about your new Kiva loan and I will contact you and get your address to send you your shiny new Kindness Activist button J .

Working together, we can use our good fortune to help others around the world.  $25 loaned to one person might seem like it is not much, but to them, it could mean the world.  THANK YOU for donating.



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