Kind Kids

Let’s talk about KIND KIDS.

 

You may have heard me say this before, but I repeat it because it is so true:  KIDS.  GET.  IT.

 

They do!  Kids understand being kind.  They like to be kind.  And if they are given opportunities to do so (and examples of how to do so) – they spread kindness like wild flower seeds.

 

So today I want to share the stories of 4 KIND KIDS that happened just this week.  These are 4 kids in my community.  I am sure if you look around your community (it won’t be too hard, I promise), you will find children near you demonstrating kindness to the world, too. 

 

First off, these cuties – S and H (brother and sister).  Their school was delayed for 2 hours on Friday because of a water main break.  Because of that their house and many in their neighborhood didn’t have any water.  Now, many kids would be delighted when they heard school was delayed.  I mean – that could be 2 extra hours in bed!  Or a trip to the park!  Or puzzles or Lego or coloring or Pokemon or watching a movie… 

 

But S and H had a kind idea of how to use those 2 hours.  Instead of PLAYING, they would spread kindness!  Their mom helped them put their plan into action by taking them to the local grocery store (because sometimes acts of kindness need a little assistance). 

 

Kind Kids in action!

  

You see, their idea was to get WATER for all of their neighbors! 

 

So, they stocked up on water then got busy delivering it house to house!  And to make it even MORE special, H chanted, “Kind is Cool!  Kind is Cool!” while they were out on deliveries. 

 

Isn’t that so fun?  And their act of kindness actually had an immediate kindness ripple.  The employee at the grocery store commented that they were sure buying a lot of water.  When they explained their mission, he went to the bakery in the store and brought them each back a COOKIE.  Thanks grocery guy!

Working hard to spread kindness

 

(P.S. – H and S do loooots of kind things.  Why, just the other day they came over to help Kindness Activist make lots of cool shaped crayons!)

 

The next kind kid being highlighted today is Ixel.  Ixel is a proud member of the Pantry Crew and does many very kind things. 

 

One thing Ixel is adamant about is making sure pantry guests have adequate supplies for when they are having their periods.  She knows how important that is both for health and dignity.  (I don’t think she knows how expensive tampons and pads are, and that people cannot use their EBT cards to purchase them, which is a whole other story that I shouldn’t get started on because I will get riled up about how unfair it all is…).

 

Anyway, since Ixel likes to put period supplies in the pantry, when we recently had a big donation of pads, I asked her if she would take on the job of putting them into baggies and she kindly agreed. 

 

Hard at work making sure pantry guests have period supplies

And then something perfect happened.  When Ixel and her mom were bringing the bags of pads back over to put in the storage area, they saw some guests at the pantry.  It was three women who stop by once a week and they were looking in the pantry.  I think that they clean the home across the street, and when they are finished cleaning, they put all of their supplies back in their car and walk over to the pantry to see if there is anything they need.  I have watched them before – they are very sweet and are careful to share with one another. 

 

When Ixel saw them, she asked if they needed any pads.  Of course they said YES!  So, Ixel explained the different kinds of pads she had just bagged up and gave them their options.  Not only did they get feminine hygiene products, they got CHOICES!  (And they got to have a conversation with Ixel’s mom about how expensive it is to buy pads in the store!)

 

I love that Ixel is so kind and so comfortable talking about periods.  Those women were lucky to be at the pantry at just the right time!!

P.S. - Ixel did all of that work on the day her school was cancelled!  

 

The last kind kid for today is June Bug.  If you have read other entries here you may remember her for hosting a Kindness Hot Cocoa stand a few months ago.  She decided she wanted to use some of the money she raised at the stand to buy toys for children in the hospital, and yesterday was DELIVERY DAY.

 

June Bug, her mamma Kasey, and I drove to Children’s National Hospital in Washington DC.  That’s where her mom used to work as a nurse, and she knows people who work there, so we knew those people would help the special toys find the perfect kids.  We were excited!

 

We got to meet some of Kasey’s friends and June Bug gave them the donations (she even gave the special teddy bear that is super duper soft that she loved).  She explained the “rules” that she had thought up:  the “lip sticks” (chap sticks) were to be split up out of the packaging and one given to each kid.  And that the VERY SPECIAL bigger toys were for kids whose parents weren’t at the hospital with them (because they would need toys more) and for kids who had to stay for overnight or a few days.  The staff listened carefully to her instructions and I am quite sure will follow them.

 

June Bug and all of the special toys she chose to donate to sick kids

What joy and kindness June Bug brings to the world.  She asks 5,000,000 questions a day (approximately) and has a very caring heart.  She and the other kids you just read about exemplify kindness.  We could all learn a thing or two from them.

 

Do you know a kind kid who would be willing to share their story with me?  Please send me an email telling me about them – KindnessActivist@gmail.com . 

 

Because the world needs more kindness.  And more stories of kindness.  We can make it a kinder place – just one small act of kindness at a time.

Bonus photo of Ixel doing ANOTHER kind thing - taking big jugs of cooking oil that were donated to the Little Yellow Free Pantry and pouring them into smaller jars.  That way more families get oil.  She is great at this job, too, and enjoys doing it.

P.S. - No June Bug, I don't know how that crane "got on top of that tall building".

P.P.S. - No June Bug, I am not sure why that person was mean.

P.P.P.S - Well June Bug, I think that is the Potomac River we are crossing.

P.P.P.P.S. - and on and on and on :) . 

Bottles of Kindness

If you have watched the news lately, you know that Senator John McCain died.

And if you happened to see my most recent Kindness Activist piece, you know that my sister was diagnosed with Glioblastoma this July.

So, if you put 2 and 2 together, you might come to the conclusion that McCain’s death (he also had Glioblastoma) hit my family in a particularly hard way. 

And you would be right.

All politics aside – whatever your opinion of John McCain is/was – my hope is that him being open and honest about his brain cancer will somehow shed more light on this disease.  My hope is that him being famous will somehow draw more attention to the lack of research and innovation in Glioblastoma treatment and cure.  May his diagnosis somehow open doors to more funding for brain cancer research, so that new medicines, trials, and CURES can be discovered.

Yesterday John McCain laid in state at the US Capitol.  I went to the Capitol to pay my respects, and in my heart I carried the respects of my family (who are in Nebraska so could not attend).  I knew the line would be long, but I had a short day at work and decided that I would wait in line however long it took. 

The United States Capitol August 31, 2018 - flag lowered for John McCain

I went early – the public viewing did not begin until 1:00 pm and I went around 2:00 because I assumed the line would be much longer after the regular work day finished at 5:00.  Before heading out I checked the list of prohibited items for the Capitol, and one thing banned was “liquid – including water”.  Alrighty then, no water!!

I have lived in the DC metro area for almost 20 years, so have been to the Capitol often.  Yesterday I was envisioning the line being indoors.  Boy was I wrong…  The lines (there were 2) were huge and were definitely OUTDOORS.  The sun was beating down and it was very, very hot.  I think when I was in line it was about 90 degrees, but it felt much hotter with the sun beating directly down.  The lines were on either side of the Capitol and weaved in and out, each “row” separated by metal barriers that were all hooked together.  It looked a bit like lines at Disney World.

Well, I hadn’t waited in line too long before I saw the first person get sick from the heat.  It was an older woman in the row next to me, and she began leaning on the metal barrier, then trying to unlock the barrier from the one next to it to open it so she could get out.  But the barriers were held together very well and were HARD to unhook.  I heard her say weakly, “I need to get out…”, and the woman next to me and I started trying to unhook the barriers to let her escape.  When we couldn’t get it open I began yelling “EMT, EMT!” and the other woman shouted, “Medic needed here!”.  Other people got the barriers open and EMTs came and took the woman onto one of many small make-shift “ambulances” that lined the street in front of the Capitol.  It made me so sad to see her on the stretcher.  I imagined that she was a die-hard McCain fan, here to pay her respects, and now she would not be able to.  I wanted to shout, “If you begin feeling better, please come take my place in line!”, but I didn’t, and I doubt she got to return.

After that incident I guess you could say that people started dropping like flies…  There was no shade (save the rain umbrellas that some people held) and the sun was H-O-T.  And there was no water for those of us that didn’t bring any.  I searched frantically for someone selling bottles of water but there was no one.  Red Cross workers had water for emergencies only, and when someone was feeling faint they would take them out of line and either have them sit on a little brick wall with a cold pack on their neck or put them on a stretcher and remove take them away.

This photo does not capture the density or length of the LINES,
but gives you some idea

I started to really worry.  I have only suffered from the effects of heat stroke once (we went to India during what turned out to be a record heat wave).  It was spooky when I got sick in India, and I did not want to relive that experience yesterday.  I think the combination of the heat and my panic was not good, and my heart began to race.  But I didn’t want to get out line – I had come to pay my respects and that is what I intended to do. 

So, I texted my sweetheart David.  He offered to come down and bring me water and my sunhat.  I was so relieved when I saw him walking up!  I poured a bit of cool water on my neck and quickly drank a bottle, saving the second one to drink while I was in the rest of the line. 

Empty chair representing POWS and those MIA inside the US Capitol

When the line finally moved to INSIDE the Capitol, it was fine.  The air conditioner kept us all cool and the wait was not difficult at all.   The site of McCain's casket lying in the Capitol Rotunda, draped in an American flag and guarded by two soldiers, was stunning.  He lie right under the beautiful domed ceiling, and those paying their respects wept, prayed, and some saluted.  

Beautiful card given to all who attended

Well, while I was still in line I asked David via text if he would mind going to the store and buying a couple of cases of bottled water.  When I got done at the Capitol, I wanted to hand out water to other people waiting in line.  He agreed, and when I was out he met me with 2 cases of water and a big rolling suitcase.

I put the water in that suitcase and off I went, back to the line!!  By this time the clouds had rolled in, so it was not AS scorching, but it was still hot.  The street was closed off (blocked by large trucks) and the area was guarded by many police officers (some of them carrying machine guns…).   The bomb sniffing dogs sniffed my suitcase 4 times to make sure it was safe.  “It’s just water!” I assured the dog wearing booties to keep his feet from getting burnt.

They were only small bottles of water, but they brought large smiles to the faces of people in line.  I had noted the diversity of the crowd inside the Capitol earlier and was amazed: there were African Americans, Indians, Asians, Caucasians, elderly people, infants, those in wheelchairs, Muslims, school children, veterans, blind people, Deaf people, those who spoke other languages, people in military uniforms, there was even a homeless man in line.  So, when I had water to hand out, it gave me joy to share it with such a wide array of people!

“How much?” some people would ask as I handed them a bottle of water.  “It is free,” was my reply.  “I waited in this line earlier and know how hot it is”.  I was thanked countless times and took joy from the wide smiles.  When I only had 3 bottles remaining a group joined the line that included 2 monks dressed in beautiful orange robes.  They were thirsty and happily took water.  It felt so fitting to be able to share this small gift with them. 

This act of kindness was a good reminder for me of how being kind not only benefits the RECIPIENT, it also gives joy to the GIVER.  I have been sad and stressed since my sister’s diagnosis and this simple act made me feel lighter and gave me a bit more hope for the world overall.

When the water was gone I went to the Vietnam Memorial (“The Wall”) for a candlelight vigil for the Senator.  It is always touching to be in that space, especially when veterans and their families are there. 

Vietnam Memorial, Washington DC - candlelight vigil for John McCain August 31, 2018

I am grateful to live in our country’s capital, so close to events like yesterday’s.  And I am thankful to have a schedule that is flexible enough to be able to participate in things. 

And I am HOPEFUL that John McCain’s illness will somehow shed light on Glioblastoma, resulting in increased funding, research, effective treatments, and a CURE.

Candles and uniform left at the Wall